Torture Garden

I had intended to go to Montreal this coming weekend for the fetish extravaganza being put on there by Torture Garden, straight from Europe. But, unfortunately, a family emergency scuttled those plans.
So, I did the next best thing and decided to go to their party here in Toronto, last weekend.
Oh, but there is a mile [...]

Winter Practicality

The pictures included with this post show me wearing a black sweater-dress and black tights with black boots. That has been a frequent outfit for me on really cold winter days. In some sense I am a bit ashamed to say that my wardrobe has bowed to practicality considering all the abuse my [...]

My Vanity Knows No Bounds

It’s like a cruel joke Mother Nature is playing on men: hair grows all over a man’s body, emerging from new places as he ages. The one exception is where he would actually like to have hair – on the top of his head. There, it falls out, relentlessly.

Well, Mother Nature has [...]

In Broad Daylight

Today was the Erotic Arts and Craft Show hereabouts, a show that offered for sale such items as T-shirts with sexual and vulgar words, pillows with suggestive comments like ‘Lick Me!” or “Tie Me Up!” complete with a little bit of rope in a pouch, corsetry, vintage pulp erotica printed onto matchboxes, light switchplates, coasters [...]

Can I Buy You a Drink?

Having received an e-mail invitation to meet a complete stranger for a drink, I was left wondering if anyone would accept this kind of invitation. When I say “complete stranger” I mean that we have never exchanged a single word.

My suitor provided me with absolutely nothing beyond:

I like your pictures,

I’m tall and good looking

I’ll [...]

Janie’s Resolutions

Like everyone else, I struggle with resolutions. The start of a new year feels so good when you think of it as a fresh slate and a new start, and for me that means making some commitments to myself that I have every hope – at least on January 1 – that I will [...]

Feel the Woman on the Inside (and Outside)

This morning I went to a seminar on how to make your voice more feminine. Not surprisingly, the upshot was that if you move like a woman, gesture like a woman, intonate like a woman and so on, the pitch of your voice – unless you have a deep bass Johnny Cash-type voice – [...]

SILLY RABBIT, TRIXIE’S NOT FOR KIDS

When I was first experimenting with crossdressing, the thing that most concerned my girlfriend was the worry that she might lose her man. She was willing to accept, even love me as a woman, but she loved her man and was not willing to lose him. I explained to her that my motivation in all [...]

My Naughty New Blog

November 5, 2008
I have come to understand that if I want to talk about sex – and I do! – then I am running the risk of getting my blog banished to “Mature” status, which means that it will not show up on any tag search or category search.
I have been writing here about my [...]

So This Blonde Walks Into a Bar

I apologize for being a few days behind, but once posted everything is out of date anyways. So, this comes from Sunday October 26.
I shaved my legs last night, even though the hair was barely noticeable. It was, after all, Gala Night, and pictures would be taken. It still thrills me the [...]

Busted!

with apologies to www.earthinpictures.com

Today, I came across a website of a crossdresser which included personal stories and pornographic pictures. The problem for me is that some of the pictures were porn I recognized and she had Photoshop-ed her face into them. (I am reproducing neither the pictures, nor the site name nor the CD’s name [...]

Provincetown’s Fantastic but Frikkin’ Freezin’ Fantasia Fair

What a miserable day it was!  Cold, raining, strong blowing winds off the ocean…  In a place where walking is the preferred mode of transportation, every outing required reconsideration. Is it worth it? 
Well, we only have a week in this fantasyland, so better make the best of it.  This is also the day when a bunch of [...]

Provincetown’s Fantastic Fantasia Fair – Day 2

I am sitting here in the Purple Feather Coffee Shop writing my thoughts and every time I look up I see one or two crossdressers on the sidewalk outside the storefront windows. From time to time one of them comes in here and orders a coffee. For a crossdresser, it is such a different feeling [...]