Pre-Halloween Party No. 2

…continued from Pre-Halloween Partying

Our next stop was a Kink-Fetish Halloween Party held at a local swingers club. Here, that means that, well, you don’t have to find a hotel room…

Again, it was quite dead – somewhat appropriate for Halloween, I guess, if you think about it…

Interestingly, I don’t think I have seen that many [...]

A Girl’s Good Name

I have been deliberating lately about posting risqué photos of myself online. Why? Why not?

It is funny that some t-girls use the fact that they look unlike their true selves and have a made-up name as license to behave in a way that they truly might be ashamed of. Of course it [...]

Over-Anxious

A recent encounter with a man reminded me of my own past difficulties – in another life – dating women. Now that I get to see things from the other side – her side – I really have to sympathize with both players in the dating dance.

Long ago, I was, as he and so [...]

Lingerie Party Night

Starting with Wednesday, the mornings were lost due to the fact that bedtime became ever closer to dawn with each passing night.

We did some shopping, especially at the mall at the Planet Hollywood (formerly the Alladin). There’s a Bettie Page story there, with 1940s inspired fashions, and I had to try almost everything on! [...]

Viva Las Difference

While planning a trip to Las Vegas for the spring, I found that two interesting groups of t-girls are going at the same time. What is most interesting is how different these two groups are.

The first of these groups has activities like golf and skeet-shooting, while the other has little planned for the daytime, [...]

Fetish Party Play

Ouch! A bit too hot to post here, I have instead posted the story, titled “Exhibitionism” on my racier site, NaughtyCDJanie.

NorthBound

For five months now, I have had a standing invitation from a friend of mine to meet at the local monthly fetish party. On Saturday, I finally made it!

Much to my chagrin, there was a line-up that took over 30 minutes to clear, but the weather was unseasonably warm, which made it bearable. [...]

A Kid Again

This whole crossdressing thing is a second adolescence for me. Adolescence is the time when you are discovering your body, your sexuality, your limitations, and it is a wonderful time that is wistfully recalled by most people but impossible to recapture. It didn’t feel as wonderful then as we now know it was.

They [...]

Curried Woman

It is an outdated feminist idea that somehow sexuality and sexual expression are inconsistent with being taken seriously as a woman. Instead, women, in significant numbers, have taken responsibility for their own sexuality and sexual satisfaction, to the benefit of both genders. They are not victims of sex but rather enthusiastic participants.

But, there [...]

Can I Buy You a Drink?

Having received an e-mail invitation to meet a complete stranger for a drink, I was left wondering if anyone would accept this kind of invitation. When I say “complete stranger” I mean that we have never exchanged a single word.

My suitor provided me with absolutely nothing beyond:

I like your pictures,

I’m tall and good looking

I’ll [...]

SILLY RABBIT, TRIXIE’S NOT FOR KIDS

When I was first experimenting with crossdressing, the thing that most concerned my girlfriend was the worry that she might lose her man. She was willing to accept, even love me as a woman, but she loved her man and was not willing to lose him. I explained to her that my motivation in all [...]